I Wish Someone Would Have Told Me this When I Was Making My List...
Do you feel like dating isn’t getting you anywhere close to your ideal man no matter how hard you try?
That was my story too!
After 5 failed relationships, which hurt my heart and decreased my self -esteem and confidence, I decided to invest money and time to figure out what the hell was wrong with me.
I read lots of books on the topic, followed LOTS of dating coaches like Matthew Hussey but nothing seemed to help me. I spent thousands of dollars on therapy even though I was only making $25K a year as a dyslexia specialist because I was that desperate to fix this/me.
All of it helped here and there, however, I wasn’t seeing a significant improvement in my ability to pick the great guy online and when I did have chemistry with a guy, I couldn’t count on him to make plans with me regularly much less trust with my heart.
The thing was, I wasn’t super clear on what I really wanted, even though I had my list of traits like kind and funny and intelligent.
But heck, a lot of people are kind and funny and intelligent and it became overwhelming for me to choose and I would blow off the list because it wasn’t helping.
So I used the only tool I knew which was chemistry.
And this is how, even though my desire was to get married again, I ended up dating a guy named red flag and a swinger.
I wish someone would have told me what I now share with my clients: I had to get specific with my traits that I was looking for and learn to be able to spot them on a dating app/profile.
Once I mastered this, I was able to swipe right on a man that has all the things I am looking for, I love spending time with and I trust with my heart. ( Back story is his profile pic was horrible… more on that later! )
If you are wanting some more help with how to do that and more, check out my Free Guide: A Dating Profile That Attracts Your Ideal Guy so you can dial in your Mr. Right and finally, find your guy.